Today I’m a dating & relationship expert, TV personality, 3x author, and “one of the UK’s most successful love coaches,” according to The Times.

But for years, I was a love addict, serial cheater, and total train wreck in romance - what one friend jokingly called a “high-achieving homewrecker”:

Successful in life, spectacularly chaotic in love.

Now, I’m 11 years into a secure, exciting partnership with my husband, and for the past 14 years I’ve helped thousands of women break destructive patterns, raise their standards, and build the kind of healthy, lasting love that finally matches the success they’ve created everywhere else.

In a dating culture that’s become increasingly superficial and transactional, real love doesn’t come from playing the game better;

It comes from changing how you show up to it.